Hi, alert readers! In my report yesterday of Mom’s passing and
the attending services, I neglected to mention something cute. Well, OF COURSE,
it has to do with Rory!
Denny and I both spoke at the funeral. When I went to the stand
and began to speak, Rory looked up and gave a little smile. She recognized my
voice, but although Ali tried to show her where I was standing, she evidently
couldn’t see that far, and soon lost interest.
HOWEVER, when her PAPA began to speak, Rory’s face split into a
big grin! Naturally, she assumed he was speaking just to HER and began to talk
back to him – with VOLUME! Ali quickly took her out to the foyer where she
continued to smile and talk (loudly) until her Papa was finished. Ali brought
her back in, and all was quiet.
Rory and her Papa have a special relationship. We had the same
experience with her Mom. First of all, Ali always called Denny “Papa”- guess
what she called me???? “Grandmother!”
Yes, “Grandmother!!!!” . .
. sigh . . And when she came
over to our house, she would rush past me, calling “Papa! Papa!” until she
found him. When he wasn’t home, she would settle with me.
One day, after Ali had been potty trained, she went into our
bathroom at our house in Santa Monica. Papa was outside grilling, and I was in the
kitchen with the window open. Chris and Krissy were around somewhere too. I
heard a sweet voice through the window, “Papa! Papa!” I answered, “Ali-girl,
Papa is outside, I’ll come help you.” “NO! I WANT PAPA!” “He can’t come right
now, honey. It’s okay, I can help.” “NOOOOOOOOOO- I WANT PAPA!!!!!” Now the
little voice was tinged with desperation, and I knew immediately what was going
on. Ali had clearly had an “accident”, and knew that her Papa would not be
upset with her. She had him wrapped around her little finger, and knew it.
Well, of course I went and got him. We always had an extra set of clothes at
our house for her- and he just quietly cleaned her up, changed her clothes, and
they came out of the bathroom as though nothing had ever happened. We have
laughed over that for years!!!!! ;-]
I imagine something like that might happen with Rory someday.
PAPA TO THE RESCUE! Or her Daddy,
Andrew, or “The Baby Whisperer”, her Grandpa Chris. OR her Uncles Nick and
Trevor! Rory is WACKO over all the men in the family. ** sigh **
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