AND SHE *SINGS* TOO!

Hi Alert Readers!  Santa nearly broke his sleigh dragging presents into the house this year!  Last year, there were only seven of us to be together for Christmas. THIS year, we had THREE more!!!!!  This year, we added our returned-missionary grandson Nick, his beautiful fiancée Emily, and –of course- Li'l Miss Rory!  It was great fun!!!!!!  But in all the hubbub and ballyhoo of the holiday, I neglected to write the blog, and Rory wasn't here to write it either. Well, she was HERE, but too busy playing with her grownups to write anything.  I'll have a little talk with her about that.

One week ago today, Ali, Trevor, Nick&Emily (that's how we think of them now!), and RORY came over and we made our traditional family truffles. YUMMY!  It was so fun to all be together!  And the truffles turned out great!

Sunday, we all went to church at Chris and Kristin's Ward. We almost always go to their Ward for the Christmas program, but especially now that Chris is in the Bishopric.  Rory arrived in full glory in her gorgeous Christmas coat and pretty red dress.  We had bought her a pair of silver shoes (soft ones), but they didn't want to stay on.     . . .  sigh . . .    Isn't that the way it goes??????? 

She was quite a hit in Sacrament Meeting.  The minute the organ began to play the opening carol, Rory began to "sing". She "sang" clear through the song. I was holding her at the time, and Denny and I were concerned that we wouldn't be able to make her stop when the song ended. BUT the minute WE all stopped singing, so did she!!!!!  That is, until the Sacrament Hymn, which –again- she sang, at the top of her lungs.  Sooooooooo cute!  We relaxed when the Sacrament Hymn was over, thinking we were "safe". We hadn't thought about the CHOIR!  Oh yeah . . . she joined the Three Fountains Ward Choir in full throat. We were all about falling apart by then.  She was ready to move up a row to sit with Uncle Trevor then- and there was no more music until the closing carol, which she slept through. I think we might have a musician in our midst!  TRA-LA-LA!  Oh my, she is so stinkin' cute!

Christmas Eve, Andrew and Nick had to work, but they were off by 5:00 and we met at our house for dinner at 6:00.  Ummmmmmmm . . . prime rib, stuffed potatoes, corn, etc. And cheese cake with cherries!  After dinner, we played a game set around the scriptural account of the Savior's birth. (For example: how many Wise Men were there? Bet your guess is not correct! The Bible doesn't say! It just says, "Wise men . . .". No number!)  We had prizes and everything!  Then we watched "The Grinch . . .", another family tradition. Denny had purchased a tray of snacks from a Figi's catalog, with summer sausages, a variety of cheeses –both soft and hard-, some sweet goodies, etc. It was a big hit!  Then 6 of us played "Scattergories" while the others just chatted and laughed. Everybody left about 10:00 or so . . . .

Christmas morning, we all met at Chris and Krissy's at 9:00'ish for cinnamon rolls, orange rolls and milk. Nick, Trevor and Rory each opened a small gift from Santa, and then Andrew and Ali brought Rory to our house, and we got to play with her while the rest of the family went to see "Les Mis". They went to the noon showing, and came back to pick up Rory about 3:30'ish. We don't have a car seat, so we couldn't take her anywhere. But we all went back to Chris and Kristin's to open presents!!!!  We got started about 4:00! WOW!  Andrew helped me roast the other prime rib, and it turned out great!  We ate dinner about 6:00 or so . . . and then just sat around and chatted and/or slept.

We had a terrific time with Rory at our house.  We had given her a cute caterpillar toy for Christmas. It comes with five round balls and some wheels. If you push down on the MIDDLE ball, the caterpillar scoots quickly across the floor. It is really cute. We showed Rory several times how to make it work, but she is only six months and didn't get it. BUT, she was flailing her hands around, and accidentally banged the middle ball. The caterpillar went flying across the floor and smacked into the bookshelf!  Rory looked up at me like I had yanked her bottle away or something!  Of course, I laughed . . . but then repented and got the caterpillar for her. Oh my . . . we love that little stinker!  We gave her a spinning top (all enclosed and really cute), a little musical thing that she can sing along with, and a BendyBall. We had given her the BIG present a couple of months ago. It is so fun to have a little one to shop for again!  ;-] 

We had a really lovely Christmas. It was wonderful to have the whole family together like that!  And what a rich blessing Rory is to our whole group . . .  

No big plans for New Year's Eve. We've recorded some old black and white movies ("Going My Way", "Alibi Ike", "Meet John Doe" and others – we like CHOICES!) to watch. Also of course, "movie snacks"! Just the two of us. YAY! 

Okay- that's it for today. Rory just arrived for her Friday visit with her Papa and GG.  I'm sorry, but if you balance loving on Rory against writing more it this blog, RORY WINS, EVERY TIME!!!!!!

Farwell for now, Alert Readers. More to follow!  HAPPY NEW YEAR to one and all!

"I'M A BIG GIRL NOW!"

Deer Alurt Reeders, hi! It's me, Rory!  My GG hugged me close today and told me that you all like to hear from me. I don't know why- becuz I don't spell verry well. But I'll do my verry best. . .

My Papa and GG are very lukky this week. They got to see me yesterday, then again today, and WILL see me Sunday at Church!  They are very, very eskited about that! They *heart* me very much!

Yesterday, my Mama, Uncle Trevor, Uncle Nick, my soon-to-be-Auntie Emily and I came over to Papa and GG's house to make something called "truffulls". I don't know what those are, but I saw everybody scrunching gram krakkers and mixing those with a can of something that had an eagle on the front, and then some little dark brown roundy things that everybody kept tossing into their mouths. Thy called them "choclit chips". GG had something called "wall-nuts" for them too, but nobody used them. I bounced in my jumper while my grown-ups mixed all this stuff up and then spread it in some pans. They put them in a big door in the stove for a while, and then –FINALLY!- I got some attention! Uncle Trevor had some of the "goop" (as he called it) on his finger and stuck it on my tongue.  It was reely reely good! I wanted more, and I kept looking and waving at him. Uncle Trevor gave me another taste! YUMMY!  I totally LOVE my Uncle Trevor! GG brought me something she called a "gram krakker" and put it in my mouth- but -YUCK!- I didn't like it AT ALL! She told me that it would "soffen up" and be reely tasty, but it was too hard, and I didn't like it. Uncle Nick put my new hi chair together while we were there. My Papa and GG are wonderful peeple, but they are not good at assembling things. So I was glad Uncle Nick was there. I got to sit in my new hi chair and play while my grown ups took the pans out of the big door in the stove and put them on the counter. We all chatted and played for a while (and I got to be center of attention AT LAST!) until the goop in the pans was "cool". Then they tipped everything out and cut the goop into squares. Nobody offered ME any- even as they were all eating a piece themselves! But if it tasted anything like that awful gram krakker, I'm glad. When it was time to leave, my Mama cleaned me up really well because she and Daddy were taking me "out to dinner" again. She said we were going out to a fancy place and I had to look my best. I tried very hard!

Today is Fryday, so it's my usual day with my Papa and my GG. My Mama and Daddy dropped me off at their house, and I endured what seemed like 19 hours of hugs and kisses before Papa put me on my play mat so I could play with my toys. My GG told me that she had rearranged the toys on my play mat so that they'd be easier for me reach, but INSTEAD, they were all right in my face and I had to bat them out of my way all the time. How do you spell "anno-ing"?  So GG came over and changed them again. One of these days, we're going to get it right!  I only tipped over ONE time today while playing there. My GG saw me waving my arms and legs around, trying to sit back up all by myself!  She laughed and laughed, and called my Papa to come see. Then they helped me sit back on my bottom again, and I played and played. I love my play mat . . . but I also love my Exersaucer and ESPECIALLY my jumper/bouncer! I love to bounce,  jump, bounce, jump and then jump some more!  WHEEEEEEEEEE!

My grownups put me in my new hi chair, and then GG fed me something called "carrats". It was orange and pretty good!  I ate the whole container!!!!  Papa fed me the last couple of bites, and then they gave me my bath!  I LOVE my baths at their house, but today GG axidently sprayed me right in the face with the wet stuff, and I DIDN'T LIKE THAT AT ALL! I was not happy, and I let them know it- loudly!  As soon as the water torture was over, my Papa fixed my botle, and GG sat in her rocker and gave me my lunch. I did fall asleep, but GG said it was a "power nap" because I only slept for about 20 minutes!  Then I was ready to rock and roll! We played and played until my Mama and Daddy came to get me. I LOVE my Papa and GG, but my Mama and Daddy are my very FAVORITES in the whole world!

I get to see my grown ups again on Sunday. We are going to Church together! We chose to go to my Grandma and Grandpa Bowler's Ward because my Grandpa is in the Bishopric (I don't know what that is!), and he'll be sitting on the stand. How do you SIT on a STAND?  There are soooo many things I don't understand!  My Papa and GG gave me a very pretty shiny red dress that they called my "Chrissmus dress". Something else that I don't understand.  They told me I get to wear it to church Sunday, and also they gave me some bright shiny things to wear on my feet. I'm not used to wearing anything but socks, so this will be a fun adventure! Mama bought me something she called "tites" to wear with the dress. I get to wear all of this to church this Sunday. I don't know what the big deal is . . . but I am happy that I get to see my grown-ups again!

Oh! I forgot to tell you that I am now 6 months old! I can sit up by myself, roll over and over both directions, eat smooshed food, and can scooch forward a bit (or BACK, by mistake!). My grown ups still tell me that I am cute. I know I am getting bigger, because Mama has to get me new clothes! AND my Papa and GG are having a harder time to hold me. I don't like to just sit on a lap or curl up on a shoulder anymore. That's for BABIES! And I am a big girl now! 

I hear that "Chrissmus" is just a few days away- so I want you all to be happy and cheerful and love your families. I sure love MINE!

Bye bye! I love you all!!!!!  Rory    :-]

"THE SIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS"

Merry Christmas, Dear Alert Readers!  Yeah  . . . it's me again: Rory isn't here.  She explained to me that it's time for ME to write once in a while. It takes a LOT out of her to write a whole blog!

So I've been in my robe ALL DAY. I AM SICK! AAACK!  Been watching Christmas movies and "working" on my computer. I did actually write our Christmas Greeting email this afternoon. We are not sending REAL cards . . . so this email greeting will be "it" for this year.  If we have your correct email address, you should receive the greeting!  There are several pictures of our sweet Rory attached. So beware . . .   ;-]  If you don't like pictures of babies, you won't like our "greetings"!  And to you I say, "Bah! Humbug!"  Bwahahaha!

Yesterday was a very big day in our family. Chris' 50^th birthday was on Nov. 30^th. And Chris and Kristin are celebrating their 25^th Anniversary on Dec. 29^th. Ali decided to celebrate BOTH events with a big party last night. Just having the big party would have been cool enough, but –as a surprise to Chris- his parents and ALL SIX of his siblings came into town to celebrate with their son and big brother!  They brought some spouses and a bevy of kids too. Chris had absolutely NO idea! What a complete surprise for him when he walked into Cracker Barrel to have a nice, quiet lunch with his wife and parents . . . but when they approached the table set up for them, sitting there were his brothers and sisters, etc.!  He was soooo surprised and touched that they would all come so far (some from Ohio, some from Colorado) for his birthday. They ALL burst into tears. It was truly "A Sight Before Christmas"! 

Chris is still enjoying the company of his family. Most are still here in town- leaving tomorrow. What a terrific weekend this is for him! No one deserves it more.

Rory stayed with us while the family met at Cracker Barrel.  I felt fine the whole time she was here.  We got her all bathed and dressed and ready to meet a WHOLE new bunch of family members.  She is a big hit with the Bowler clan!  ;-]   Trevor came to get her and take her home to meet everybody.  An hour later, Denny and I met Chris, Krissy, and Chris' parents (Bruce and Julie) at a restaurant for dinner. On the way home, I suddenly felt very sick.  We stopped by our house for a few minutes to give me a minute to settle my stomach- then we went over to the big birthday-anniversary party at the kids' house. It was really a nice party- lots of people there!  We got to see Chris' family and, of course, other friends and family. We didn't stay too long. I still didn't feel well, and we needed to come home early. But Ali did a great job, and the party was fun.

This morning, early, Denny got a call from a counselor in our Bishopric, asking him to speak in Sac. Mtg. tomorrow!  Plus, since I am sick, he will be teaching our teenage class too. He's up to it, of course!

JOKE OF THE DAY: What did the Minnesotan say to the Pillsbury Doughboy?

 . . . .  NICE TAN!!!!  . . . .

Bwahahahahaha!!!!!!!  Until next time . . . . aloha o'e!

FRIDAY WITH PAPA & GG

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 8, 2012

Hi Alert Readers! Yep! It’s me- Rory- again! My GG is pooped today and since you all seem to prefer MY blogs anyway, she asked me to write again for her. GG says she thinks I get my writing talent from HER, but I don’t know. It’s just like they say that I got my Daddy’s eyes. That kinda scares me; if I have HIS eyes, how does he see anything???? This world can be pretty confusing at times!

I had quite a day yesterday. On Fridays, I spend most of the day at Papa and GG’s house. This is my Daddy’s “day off”, whatever that means. And my Mama and Daddy get all excited to go shopping or to a mov-eey (?) or just REST.  I don’t know why they can’t do those things with me around!!! But it’s okay with me because I love my Papa and GG. They let me do pretty much whatever I want. Someone asked me if I am SPOILED . . . but I didn’t know how to answer. I don’t SMELL bad- so how could I be spoiled????  And all of my adults like to hug me and kiss me, so I think I am okay.

After I arrived at Papa and GG’s house yesterday, they hugged me and kissed me FOREVER! Well . . . at least it felt to me like it was forever!  But finally they put me down on the floor with my play mat. This is one of my favorite toys. I used to lay down on the ground UNDER it to play with the toys hanging from it- but now I am a BIG girl, and I sit right up and bang the toys around with my hands to make them rattle and ring. My Papa puts a big soft quilt all around me. After I had played with the toys for quite a while, I noticed that suddenly everything was turning SIDEWAYS! Very slowly. I found myself lying on the quilt! And my toys were out of reach!  My GG laughed, and Papa came and picked me up by my middle and plopped me back on my bottom. I was very happy to be able to reach my toys again. I like to chew on the frog and the doggy. AND sometimes there is another baby there with me! She shows up in a shiny round thing that hangs from my play mat. She has dark blue eyes and chubby cheeks. I think she is really cute, but she disappears! I wonder where she goes? 

I was just bored with my play mat when Papa noticed something unpleasant around my “nether regions”, as he called them. So he picked me up and put me on my homemade “changing place” on the island in GG’s kitchen. He isn’t fond of changing these kinds of diapers, but GG doesn’t seem to mind. She just talks and talks to me and wipes up whatever mess I may have made, and puts a nice, fresh, clean diaper on me. I REALLY don’t like dirty diapers. Yesterday, it must have been a really BAD one, because GG decided I need a bath- immediately! Papa picked me up and put me in my “bath chair” in the kitchen sink, and GG sprayed me with nice warm water and washed me from head to toe! I don’t like to have my neck washed or rinsed, but GG fools me and I lay my head back without thinking, and she jumps right in and washes/rinses it really fast. It might make me mad if I didn’t love my GG so much! But who could stay mad at such a wonderful, loving GG?!?!?!?!? –ahem-

After I am all cleaned up, I like to stay on the big soft towels on the island and talk to my Papa and GG. We have had some really good conversations there. I try to tell them all about my life, and they smile at me and kiss me, but I don’t think they understand everything I am saying. Sometimes, before they put my clothes back on me, they press their lips to my tummy and blow real hard. It tickles!!!!!!  Papa says it is a “zerbert”. Sometimes I don’t like them; sometimes I do.

Before they got me dressed again, GG put something bright red up to me and said, “Oh, she’s going to be BEAUTIFUL!”. She also put some bright silver things on my feet- not sure what they were, but Papa and GG said they “will be perfect with the dress”. I wonder what they are talking about? 

I look forward to the end of my baths, because not only do I FEEL a lot better- but I get my LUNCH!!!!  Papa makes me a nice big bottle and GG holds me in her rocker and feeds me. I keep trying and trying not to fall asleep (why waste time sleeping when I can play with my Papa and GG?), but GG keeps rocking me and rocking me, and my eyes won’t stay open!  GG says I don’t sleep very long- only about 20-30 minutes. She wishes I would sleep longer, because she loves to hold me. But I am just too excited to be there that I wake up to play again.

Papa put me in my ‘saucer for a while, and then in my bouncer. Papa and GG just sit there and watch and watch me, laughing and laughing. They think I’m pretty cute, I think! I’m glad they do. I try really hard to be good and adorable. I like the looks on my adults’ faces when I am cute. Their eyes crinkle up and they smile at me. I just love my adults.

When my Mama and Daddy came to pick me up, they changed me out of my cute Christmas jammies and put some pants and a shirt on me- with some striped socks. Then they took me someplace called “out to dinner”! I sat up in a high chair and played with my toys while my favorite adults ate some funny-lookin’ things. They said it was “Meksi-kin food”? Again, big people there told my adults how cute I am . . . . and I made sure to live up to it!

That’s all for now, guys. GG said to tell you that if you need to know my sizes and favorite colors, just give her a call. What is she talking about?  Love you!  Rory

A ROCKER AND COMPRESSION HOSE

Dear Alert Readers!  Rory is off-duty today, so –sorry!- you are stuck with me. Several of you have told me that you really like Rory's blogs. Yep! Better than mine. I don't blame you, actually, because Rory is absolutely adorable and a pretty good writer for a five month old!  ;-]

I'm sitting here in my rocker with my feet up, but it's not because I am lazy . . . it's because my poor feet and ankles are KILLING me!  They are swollen and miserable.  Oh poor me!  Bawwwww!  Denny put the attractive compression socks on me earlier today, so I LOOK gorgeous too!  He advised me to keep my feet up all day. This is not as easy as it sounds. But they HAVE to be better by tomorrow evening; it's our Ward Christmas Party and we are setting a table for eight. Every other time we have had an adult party like this, Denny and I have hauled our Christmas Spode china down to the building, and then home again to scrape and wash. YUCK!!!  This year, we decided to go with PAPER PLATES! We found some cute ones with matching napkins and stuff. My friend Cyndy Jones is using paper plates too. We hope we're not the only tacky ones at the party! Denny and I are going to use small, wrapped gifts as a simple centerpiece. And we have a medium-sized Hershey's kiss that is decorated like a Santa Hat!  Each guest will receive one. Plus, we have a bunch of regular kisses to spread around the centerpiece. I think it will look really cute!  ;-] But my feet and ankles HAVE to feel better, or I will have a really hard time.

. . . . AAAAAARGH!

OH! Last night as Denny and I left the Temple after our shift, we found a cute bag tied with a very fancy bow on the hood of our car. The tag read, "While you were serving Him, we were serving you!" And the bag was full of homemade candy and cookies. So sweet!  We wonder if the gift came from a YW group or maybe some Young Adults. And the goodies are delicious!

Tomorrow Rory is coming over for a few hours!  YAY!  She won't be able to stay as long as usual, because we have to get ready for the Ward party. But at least we get to have her for a while! Love to kiss those poochy baby cheeks!!!!!

Farewell, friends!  Are you all ready for Christmas??????  "Deck the Halls", "Joy to the World", "Hark! The Herald Angels Sing", etc.,  etc. and etc.!!!!!!

Love to all, Sue ;-]

GRANDKIDS AND LOVE

Well, hello again, Alert Readers! First of all, I want to thank our sweet Rory for filling in for me the last couple of blogs. I was just too tired and lazy to write, and she is always willing to help!  She is such a wonderful baby girl! 

It's not like I have a TON of fun stuff to write about today, but I wanted to stake my claim on my own blog again, so here I am! 

Our fabulous grandkids (including Nick's fiancée, Emily) came over and decorated our house- inside and out! Our son-in-love Chris came to help Trevor put up our outside lights! He used to do the outside lights ALL BY HIMSELF in Santa Monica. And that's when he covered our whole house (even the spine of the roof!) in lights! Our house was right across the street from the college, and the students absolutely LOVED the "light house", as they called it. Chris put hundreds of lights up year after year.  Wow!  Even the bushes were smothered with lights. Sooooooooo pretty.  Here in Mesa, we don't put so many lights up. We live in a cul-de-sac and, really, no one sees our house except those who actually LIVE in the cul-de-sac. Our neighbors' house and our orange trees hide us from the big street. So we put up some cute red plastic bows (lighted, of course) and some lighted snowflakes. It looks pretty and festive, without being too much work for the guys.

Ali's hubby, our grandson-in-love Andrew put our tree up. Every year, Trevor decorates it. This year, he had HELP!!!!!  Rory sat in his lap and helped him decide where to put the "pretties", as she called them. Ali climbs up on a stool and put up our big Annalee dolls on top of our entertainment center and bookcases. She knows just where to put them, and does a great job every year. Nick and Emily came over to tie down the big, lighted red bows outside. They get caught by the wind and get blown up onto our roof, so they need to be tied down with string to our plants. Decorating our house, inside and out, is a family affair!  We really appreciate their help!  Denny and I can no longer handle it. Oh, AGE, how you let us down!!!!!!! Oh, how we LOVE our grandkids!!!!!!

To cap it off, our house is now fully decorated and gorgeous! A 4 foot tall Annalee mouse stands guard with two smaller friends in one corner, two 4 foot Santa and Mrs. Santa reign over the whole house from the top of our entertainment center, and a bevy of various-sized Annalees hover on shelves everywhere. And Annalees COVER our tree! Top or bottom there are Annalee Santas, elves, mice, reindeer, snowmen, angels, gingerbread men, penguins, a hippo wearing a wreath, even a koala bear. OH! And a monkey!  Love it! Love it! 

WARNING TO ALL GRANDCHILDREN!!!! I will be wrapping presents on Friday! YOU ARE NOT INVITED TO COME OVER! :-]  HO HO HO!!!!

'Bye to all!  Love, Sue ;-]

"WALL-TO-WALL PEOPLE, AND TERKEE!"

This is me in my new Exersaucer at Grandma and Grandpa's house. Nooooo, I am not spoiled!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy Day After Thanksgiving, Alert Readers!  This is Rory again. My GG says she is too lazy to write, so she asked me if I could please fill in for her again.  I am happy to help my GG because I love her the MOST of all- except my Mama, my Daddy, my Grandma and Grandpa, my uncles and my Papa!  But, besides all of them, my GG is my very most favorite!

Yesterday was my very first Thanksgiving. I really don't know what that is all about . . . but I heard my adults talking about things they are grateful for, and they seemed to think that YESTERDAY was the day to talk about it . . . so maybe THAT'S the whole deal! It made me very happy to hear them say that every one of them is thankful that I am in our family.  :-] 

My Mama, Daddy joined my Grandma and Grandma and uncles to go see a moo-vey, whatever that is!  I didn't feel left out, though, because they dropped me off at Papa and GG's house on the way. So I got to spend some time with them! I watched some football boys on TV with Papa.  I like the bright colors and the activity. Then my GG held me and I jumped up and down on her tummy.  I like to jump- but after a couple of minutes, my GG said, "Ouch, Bitty!" (Sometimes she calls me "Bitty Boo")  . . .  so Papa came and put me in my Excersaucer.   I have learned that I can jump all I want in my 'saucer, and no one complains about it. So for a loooooooooooooong time I played in my 'saucer- chewing on the brightly-colored toys and bouncing as hard as I could.  Whee!!!!!!

After a while, I announced –LOUDLY!- that I was hungry. Papa got me my bottle, and gave me to GG and she fed and rocked me.  I didn't WANT to take a nap. I tried real hard NOT to take a nap. But GG is nice and soft, and she rocks me back and forth and back and forth- and before I knew it, I was sound asleep. GG continued to rock me, but I only slept for about 25 minutes. Then, I was ready to roll! Papa put me in my bouncer, and I jumped and jumped until my Papa and GG said they were getting dizzy watching me. We played and laughed at each other until my Mama and Daddy came back to pick me up. Papa and GG kissed me "goodbye", but said they'd be seeing me "later"- so I was confused.

Mama and Daddy took me to a whole different house, and I met a bunch of brand-new adults. My Grandma and Grandpa Mills were there, and they seemed to know everybody.  I didn't like the crowds- it was noisy and kinda scared me. So I LET THEM KNOW- at the top of my lungs.  I wanted to make a really good impression on everybody, but I think I didn't.  But Grandma and Grandpa Mills love me anyway, and I know I will get used to the big family crowds.

We left from that big party and went right back to Papa's and GG's!  This time, it was my Mama's side of the family.  It's a much smaller crowd- since my Grandma is Papa and GG's only child, and she and Grandpa had only three children. There were not wall-to-wall "cuzzins" there. Plus, I already knew all of them –even my Uncle Nick's new girlfriend, Emily. Someone said she is his "fiancée", but since I don't know what that means, I'll just call her "Emily". She very pretty and very nice.

It was weird. All of my adults sat around tables and ate the SAME food they had eaten at the OTHER house!  It was called "terkee". I don't GET it!  But as long as I get my bottles when I need them, I don't care what the others eat! Everybody ate so much that no one had room for "deezert".  We just all sat around and chatted with each other- the men in the family room, and we women in the kitchen. After a while, my Mama put me down to bed in GG's "parlor". My Grandpa was in there too. Everyone else just continued to chat, I guess . . .  but they didn't wake me up until it was time for my Mama, Daddy and me to go home. I didn't like being woken up- and I wanted even the NEIGHBORS to know it!  GG is sure they did! Everybody left the house at about the same time, carrying big plates with bright silver paper on them. I
think there was some "deezert" on the plates.  

It was a loooooooong day, but I enjoyed being with all of these big people who love me. I have learned that it is called a "kiss" when they press their lips onto my cheeks or hands or legs.  I just have sit there and endure the kisses until everyone is done. Maybe if I weren't "so stinkin' cute" (as my Grandma always says), I wouldn't get so many kisses. I try to give kisses back, of course- but I haven't yet figured out how to put my lips together, so my adults squeal a little about my "slurpies"!  ;-0 

I hope ya'll had a wonderful day.  My adults all said it was good, and I think it was too. My Papa promised me that NEXT year, I can have some of the adult food.  How are they going to squeeze it into a bottle??????  

Well, 'bye, guys!  I am very tired and need to rest. My GG said she'll write maybe tomorrow. I love you all!  Rory  ** M'wa! **

RORY'S "CHRISTMAS CHEER"!

Hi Alert Readers!  My name is Aurora Rose Mills, but everyone calls me "Rory".  I am my GG's favorite li'l person (as she keeps telling me), and I am writing her blog tonight!  She is doing the actual TYPING because I haven't figured out how to manage my fingers very well yet. So I whispered my thoughts into her ear, and she is telling you.

Today was a Banner Day in my life. My Mommy, Daddy, and tall, dark and handsome Uncle Trevor took me over to my Papa's and GG's house. They said something about "decorating". I didn't know what that meant, but when we got to the house, the furniture had all been moved around. I didn't know where to find my TOYS!  AND a big green plant thingy was standing right where my GG's rocker usually sits. That's where she feeds me and rocks me to sleep!  But I finally found it- when GG took me from Papa's arms and sat in it with me. I sat with GG while everybody else was busy-busy-busy dragging boxes into the room and taking pretty things out of them. My GG says her favorite color is "red", and LOTS of the stuff in the boxes was red- so I knew she was happy!

But the most FUN thing that happened was when the big green plant thingy all-of-a-sudden turned BRIGHT with lots of colored lights!  Then my Uncle Trevor grabbed some boxes and started HANGING pretty things all over the big plant thingy! He called the big thingy a "tree", so I guess that's what it is. He would know, because he is very smart! I was soooo excited when he took me from my GG and sat me down in his lap and let me help him hang the pretties on the tree. He would pick one out of the box, show it to me, and ask me where we should hang it. I took this very seriously, but mostly I really wanted to CHEW/SUCK on the pretties.  When Uncle Trevor wouldn't let me put them in my mouth, I really DID try to show him where the pretties should go . . . I would flail my hands around and show him JUST where to put them!  We must have been a pretty good team, because before too long, the whole tree was covered top to bottom with lights AND the pretties! I just couldn't look at it enough!!! My eyes kept going back to the tree . . . over and over!  I felt proud that I could help my Uncle Trevor "decorate" it. 

By then, I was getting really tired, but I didn't want to give in and take a nap. But my Mama saw right through that, and had my GG wrap me up in my blanky and rock me.  I tried very VERY hard not to fall asleep, but the next thing I knew, I was waking up on my GG's shoulder. I looked up into her eyes and she said, "Well, look who's awake!"

. . .  I think she meant me!

'Bye, guys! I love you all!!!!!!  Rory 

LOSING MY MIND . . .

Hi Alert Readers! Okay . . . so sometimes I think my brain cells are escaping faster than I can capture them!  PROOF: last night I was serving in the Records Office at the Temple.  My job was to stamp the date on each of the ordinance slips that had been scanned into the computer.  About half way through the evening, I was stamping along, minding my own business, when I noticed that the ink was getting very light. I kept tapping and tapping it on the inkpad, but it seemed to be out of ink. I said, "Oh! I really need ink!  Let me find Sister Heywood" (she's the Office Supervisor).  My two fellow workers looked over and both began to laugh. I had been tapping my stamp on the LID side of the inkpad!!!  No wonder there was no ink!!!!!!  Oh my . . . .  it's sad to lose your mind!

BLING, LING-A-LING! A RING!!!!!

NOTE to Alert Readers!   Okay, so here we go! NICK IS ENGAGED!  Yep! Our grandson's been home from his mission for two months today, and he is engaged. The young woman's name is Emily Pratt, and she is a sweetheart.

 They are being married on Thursday, March 7^th in the Mesa Temple.

Here's a picture of her ring.

Nick and Emily have known each other for years, but never dated until he returned from his mission. Emily is part of Kristin's theatre group:  Actor's Youth Theater.  Love at first date??????  Well, we're kinda used to that in our family! Emily is the youngest of 6 sisters and 1 brother- has 27 nieces and nephews!  She is 12 years younger than her youngest sibling. YEP! She's an "OOPS!"  A very nice "Oops"! 

So Rory gets another Aunt, and Emily gets her 28^th niece/nephew!  ** Whew! **

Wanna know how Nick proposed??????  He bought Emily a set of scriptures and had "Emily Suzanne Bowler" engraved on the front. Then he took her to "their" place, a certain bench at the Mesa Arts Center (first kiss, first "I love you"- awwwwwwww!). He placed the book on the bench, she picked it up and looked at it, saw the name, and he went right down on one knee and proposed. She had NOOOOOOOOOO idea!  They had talked about marriage, but she had no idea he was proposing when he did.  NICE!  They are sooooooo cute together!

Even OUR little family is beginning to grow!  YAY!!!!! 

SANTA CAME EARLY!!!!!!!!

Good morning, Alert Readers!  Well, Denny and I just couldn't wait one more minute to give our beautiful Rory her big Christmas gift. She's only going to be 6 months old at Christmas and won't know  Christmas from Shistmas . . . so we gave her our gift EARLY! Actually, it was TWO gifts; one for our house and one for hers. We gave her two of those really fun Exersaucers!  And she loves it! She sits in the little seat, surrounded by fun toys . . . and bounces. Oh yes, she also has a jumper/bouncer here and at her own home. But she's a bouncer wherever she sits! She did immediately locate the toys attached to the top, and is learning that she can turn the seat and reach all of the toys all around her.

Her Daddy, Andrew, was funny with her the first time she played in the 'saucer. She was flailing her hands around trying to play with each toy, and Andrew said (reading Rory's mind), "Mine! Mine! Also mine!" He reached forward to touch a toy, and she gave him a baleful look. You could see it clearly in her mind- "MINE!"

This little girl has completely stolen our hearts. Papa is totally WACKO over her . . . and I am just as bad. When she turns those big, deep blue eyes on us, we will do anything for her.  And . . . do you think she knows it????  Oh my, YES!  We put her down on her tummy on our "Rory Blanket" for a nap, and she instantly turned over, looked at me with those eyes, and began to whimper.

When the whimpering became full-throated wailing, and those eyes were STILL directly on me, I gave in. Oh course. Just like she knew I would. I picked her up, wrapped her in a little blanky and rocked her to sleep. I know . . .  I know . . .  but that's the joy of being a great-grandparent!  If Papa and GG (Denny and I) can't spoil her, who can??????????

LOVE LOVE LOVE THAT BABY!

IT'S BEGINNING TO LOOK . . . ACK!!!!

Hi Alert Readers!  Yep! I know Halloween is just barely past, and Thanksgiving is still a bit around the corner, but still and all . . . it's beginning to look a like Christmas around our house!  Good grief, Charlie Brown!  Our bedroom has been taken over by Christmas Annalee dolls!  As reported in my last blog, we brought some home from Den's mothers' collection (divided up between Den and his twin sisters). We unpacked them and laid them out around the bedroom so Krissy and Ali can come over and make their selections. There is a 4 foot tall mouse dressed in festive attire, two 24" mice (a man and woman), one 24" Mrs. Santa and a trio of 24" Mr. Santas.  There's also a few 8-12 inchers, and 8 quite small dolls.  The girls are coming over tomorrow morning to make their choices. PLUS, we may or may not have a little surprise for them, too! There may or may not be 4 brand-new ones awaiting them too! We caught a good sale a few months ago.  ;-]

We have kind of a curious tradition in our family. NEW members to our family sometimes have a couple of doubts about us . . . but we always decorate BEFORE Thanksgiving. Seriously- BEFORE Thanksgiving! By Thanksgiving Day, the outside Christmas lights are hung on the house, the tree is up and ready to go, our wreaths are hung around the house and ready to light, our bookshelves and tops of our cabinets are decorated with lights and Annalees, and lighted garlands are strung on anything that doesn't move. We don't actually turn on any lights until the actual Thanksgiving night, but we are always ready.  Our neighbors generally get a big kick out of us- our grandsons out on ladders hanging lights in the middle of November! Trevor decorates our tree every year (has done it for years!).  He has a real "eye" for that. Ali puts all of the big Annalees (and big heavy garlands that she calls "The Beasts"!) on top of our shelves and entertainment center, making them look very cute. Nick and Andrew hang the outside lights. FUN! FUN!! FUN!!! 

Sooooooooo, here we are on November 5^th, trying to plan a good day for our grandchildren to come over. It's hard to get all four at the same time . . . and we may have to do the decorating this year in bits and pieces.

No worries . . .  as long as it's done by Thanksgiving!  Tra la la la la!!!!! 
P.S. Mr. and Mrs. Santa Smith FINISHED their Christmas shopping today!!!!!!  ** whew! **  KIDS: Stay OUT of Grandma's office closet!!!!  

ANNALEES, "ISLANDS" AND MEMORIES . . .

Hello, Alert Readers! Christmas Annalee dolls were everywhere!  ;-] Mom's house in Tempe was covered in them. Jody and Jill (Denny's twin sisters) had spent 2 or 3 days organizing the dolls in preparation for us to gather together and divvy them up. Dolls were covering the dining room table, the counter in the kitchen, a card table in the family room and all of the furniture in the living room. Big ones about 4 feet tall, medium ones, small ones, and then –everyone's favorite these days- the tiny tree ornaments. Each Annalee doll is handmade, hand painted, and different from any other. Our family has been collecting them for about 40 years. Mom had a great collection, and we three families are going to enjoy them the rest of our lives. Each of us selected dolls for ourselves and mostly for our children and grandchildren. What fun to look at each doll and remember Mom, who got us started collecting in the first place! 

Half way through the Annalee division, Denny, Jody, Jill, Jiggs and I sat down at Mom's dining room table to look over and discuss Mom's will and estate. We started with a prayer- because we ALL want to get through this situation with absolutely NO hurt feelings or anger of any kind. And that's exactly what happened! Denny, as Executor, gave a report on Mom's bank accounts. We discussed the disposition of the house, furnishings and odds and ends. Decisions were made as to who would inherit what. Of course, we included our Pop's children and our own grandchildren. Even our GREAT-granddaughter Rory was given something cute! When we finished the discussion, everyone felt that the division was fair and square, and peace reigned- just as we planned and expected.  We've been blessed with a wonderful family!

Then it was BACK TO THE ANNALEES! What fun! We came home with two packing boxes and two garbage bags overrun with dolls. Denny and I will choose a few that we really want, and then give Kristin and Ali a chance to come choose. We are going to put a couple away for our granddaughters-to-be as well. Our grandsons are not interested, but we bet the girls will be when they see our houses decorated for the holidays. And, of course, we need a REALLY cute one for our REALLY cute li'l Rory!

We've heard of families being ripped apart during occasions like this. Brothers and sisters not speaking to each other! Cousins not even knowing who's who! What a shame. We decided from the beginning that we would be fair and honest with each other- no matter what. Denny's sisters are waaaaaaaaay more important to us than ANY piece of furniture or amount of money in the world. We are family forever! ;-]

We left Tempe, came home to unload our goodies and then hustled ourselves over to the Mesa Arts Center to see AYT's "Once On This Island". Our grandson Trevor had a featured part! The production was excellently done! Beautiful set and scenery- great costumes- and the kids did a WONDERFUL job! Of course, our eyes were on our Trevor and on Nick's favorite girl, Emily, but all the kids did well. We were both impressed! GOOD JOB, AYT! This was an excellent way to kick off your 10th season!  ;-]

It was a day of sweet memories- memories of Mom, memories of holidays past, and memories of each other. Family first?????  Yes sir, FAMILY FIRST! 

STEPPING OUT OF THE LIGHT . . .

Hi Alert Readers! Just a note to all of you out there who may be "of a certain age". ** You know who you are. ** This getting old thing is getting old!  . . . sigh . . .  We just taught our teenage Sunday School class about the Three Nephites- and about the NINE who were to live until they were 72 years old, and then pass immediately into the presence of God. 72????????  Denny and I are now 69- pushing 70 pretty hard!  72 is just maybe 30 months away!  We are not, of course, the Three Nephites . . . but just considering that their "ending date" was so close to our present age gives us a whole new perspective.

Now I have something to say: getting old is hard enough, but stepping out of the light is much harder. Just a few years ago, before we moved, Denny and I were involved in just about EVERYTHING in the Santa Monica Stake. We had both served in the Stake for more than 20 years. By the time we left, we felt like we knew nearly EVERYBODY in the Stake; knew their parents, siblings, grandparents, even their DOGS! (OKAY- that is an exaggeration!)  We were busy, involved, our phone rang constantly, we felt needed, and happy. Our sweet little Ward, Santa Monica 1^st, was "family" to us.

Then we moved into a very large Ward. Mesa 18^th Ward is warm, friendly, loving and kind. But our age has somehow put up a "wall" between us and all the things we used to do. Denny has done fine with this- he enjoys having so much time to himself. I, however, have had a tougher time. I miss the young men and young women who were such a HUGE part of our lives for so many years. I miss the opportunity to work on Ward/Stake productions and parties. I miss the sociability of my large group of friends to go to dinner/parties/showers/movies with and chat, chat, chat with on the phone. I miss the better health we had in Santa Monica. The past few years have been tough on us physically- both of us have had illnesses and surgeries that have sidelined us now for about three years.

. . .  I know, I know: "Do you want some cheese with that whine????" 

It has been hard to step out of the light into the fringes of a large, active Ward and Stake. But this is inevitable, I know. Our days in the sun are behind us. It's time now for the Kindras, Wendys, Debbies, Karens, Lauras and Susans to shine. And, boy!, do they! Our Ward is chock full of wonderful, talented young wives and mothers. I can't BEGIN to mention them all. Our job is to take a back seat and cheer them on, just as the "older" sisters cheered US on for so many years. Learning to enjoy activities without being involved has been a hard lesson for me, but at the "Trunk or Treat" last Monday, Den and I found ourselves laughing and enjoying the conversations around us without a single worry about the activity itself. ;-]  Pretty nice, actually!  . . . pretty nice, indeed . . .
 

TO "CROC" OR NOT TO "CROC"?

Dear Alert Readers!  Ya'll know that I've had a lot of trouble with my knees, hips and, now, FEET!  . . . sigh . . .  We went to our podiatrist (Brian Allen, whom we love!) because my right foot was swollen, red, hot and felt like I was walking on a golf ball.  OUCH! OUCH! And, by the way, . . . OUCH!!!!  Dr. Allen took a few ex-rays, thought it could be a stress fracture and sent me for an MRI.  No, it is not a stress fracture, just a good case of edema. So it's compression socks, ice, and "sensible shoes" for me. He suggested that I buy SAS shoes and Crocs!  Dr. Allen said that those shoes would definitely help my poor, huge, achy legs and feet.  ;-] 

. . . oh my . . .

Have you ever seen SAS shoes?  Even Dr. Allen calls them "frumpy", which is actually complimentary!  ;-[  We went to the SAS store and checked out every style there.  Uhhhhhhhh . . .  did I say "STYLE"? Okay, here they are: "Frumpy- Ugly", "Frumpy-Disgusting", "Frumpy-Just-Plain-Sad" or "Frumpy-Hilarious". After trying on several pair, I decided on "Just-Plain-Frumpy" and bought two pairs.

. . . so here I am, all set to go in my old lady compression hose and SAS shoes! No laughing when you see me, please. A nice nod and sweet "Hi!" would be greatly appreciated. Hysterical laughing can wait until I am around the corner!

Now for the question of the day: Crocs?????  Yay or nay?  Dr. Allen sells them right in his office, but I bet I can get them cheaper elsewhere. Do I want them? What do you think??????? To "Croc" or  not to "Croc"? 

NEW CALLING; SICK BABY

Good morning, alert readers! GOOD NEWS on the Bowler Family front! Our wonderful son-in-love Chris was called to the Bishopric of the Three Fountains Ward last Sunday! It seems that his responsibilities will include working with the youth. GREAT choice!  Denny ordained him as a High Priest, and the Bishop set him apart as Counselor. He will be wonderful!!! He's a little nervous, of course. Who wouldn't be? We are so happy for him!  ;-]

On a completely different note, poor Ali! Last Friday evening, she was all set to go to a party where her blogger friends were going to meet face-to-face! She loves these girls, and was sooo anxious to have a fun night out and finally meet them someplace other than the blogosphere! She dressed in a spiffy outfit, fixed her hair really cute, even SHAVED HER LEGS! Yep, she was ready for a great night out!  Well, Friday morning, Rory had had her doctor's appointment and the nurse gave her FOUR shots, and one oral medication. Poor baby!  Last time she had her shots, Rory wasn't affected at all . . . and we all assumed she'd be fine this time too. Friday is OUR day with Rory, and when she arrived a couple of hours after her appointment, she seemed okay- just a little lethargic. But as the day wore on, she drooped more and more, and fussed almost constantly. We gave a her a good bath (she likes that) and cuddled her as best we could. But even her Papa couldn't coax much a grin out of her- very unusual. By evening, Rory was in distress. Her little body was hot with fever. Her cries became shrieks!  We had never heard anything like that before! And we could tell that these were shrieks of PAIN! Papa and I both did everything we could think of to make her feel better- to no avail.  When she finally THREW UP all over me (not spit up, mind you, THROW UP!), we knew it was time to call her Mama. Ali, all dressed and ready for the long-awaited party, came right over. She knew the minute she walked in the door that she wouldn't be going to the party. Rory had finally fallen asleep on Papa's chest, but she was wheezing, and still hot to the touch. When she woke up just a few minutes later and heard her Mama's voice, she absolutely relaxed and gave her a little smile. Ali took her home, snuggled her up next to her and hummed and sang to her until she went to sleep. She had a little bit of a rough night, but was fine the next day. That baby really needed her Mama! Ali was very disappointed to miss the party (yes, there were tears), but Rory is so much more important to her that she soon forgot all about that, and just loved on her baby girl.

Papa and GG surely wish we could have helped our sweet baby Rory . . .  but this was one time she needed Mama, and only Mama! We hope Ali will have another chance to meet these fun blogger friends. Next time -NO DOCTOR'S APPOINTMENT!

Oh, how we love our girls: Krissy, Ali and Rory!!!!!!  And the boys aren't so bad either!!!!!  ;-]